Setting Your Dating Standards

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Date anyone that shows interest and it’ll lead to disappointment.  Date anyone with a few weak stipulations added by yourself over time, and it’ll still lead to disappointment.

Deep down you know what it is that you want  – and more importantly what you DON’T want.  So do this, grab a piece of paper and draw a line down the middle.  On the right put down what you want, and on the left put down what you will NOT put up with.

Don’t hold back either and go full detail – eye color, height, career, income, weight, body type, beliefs, personality type/traits, family values, education – whatever you want – this is where you reel in the knowledge learned from past relationships to do better in the future.

Get it all out and on paper – and then post it on your fridge, or somewhere where you will see it every. single. day.

Burn that shit into your brain – this is essential.

When you see one of these beings out in the wild or online you will make a conscious effort to get yourself in front of them, because they are rare and special.

We are of a generation that has the most choice and selection for a wife or husband than ever before  due to technology- embrace it and be smart about it.

To get what you want and know you deserve is your birthright, go get it.

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12 thoughts on “Setting Your Dating Standards

  1. I’m not sure I agree… Of course on online dating i put all the filters i want: he has to be this tall, without children, not divorced, this and that…His photos grab by attention, but it’s more what he says and writes that grabs my interest. How many times you are surprised or start feeling smg for a person that doesn’t really correposnd to your ideal? Ideals do no exist, it’s as simple as that, and possibily, by clingi g to them, we are missing out on some really great people who could make us happy..

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