Mrs Red Flag City

She had sent me a message on match but her profile only had one picture and it wasn’t of her – it was of an ocean.  I quickly told her I need to see what she looks like – she says she took them all down due to receiving “weird messages from men”.

That was the first red flag.

She uploads a blurry head shot, then a couple more showing her very nice body, I am game.  So we start chatting.  She had been through a (I assume rough) divorce 2-3 years prior and told me she had taken quite a bit of time to heal and get her mojo back, which is understandable.  We seem to gel pretty well, so I go for the date and she shoots me down!  She says she had her tonsils pulled 3 weeks ago and she’s still healing from that!

There’s the second red flag.

Our slew of messages has now deteriorated to maybe one a day as I have no idea what this chicks deal is, but she continues to send messages – now asking things you ask in person.  Personality types, what am I looking for, where do I see myself in 5 years type questions.  I send a sly answer and firmly ask again for the meet and she agrees.  I tell her I’ll find a nice spot at the half way point and she likes the idea.

I find a really nice, quiet cafe, booth style seating, nice ambiance – perfect for a first date, but remember what I am dealing with.

Yeah – she said that wasn’t going to work as she used to live in the area (big town with a population of 200,000) and she was fearful of running into someone she knows, and asks if I can pick another spot in the next town over.

3rd red flag, you’re outta here!

I told her this was never going to work, she had way too many rules and restrictions – among whatever the hell else was causing her to act like that.

Wanna know what she responded with?

“Nothing ventured nothing gained”

Someone needs to heed their own advice.

The end.

 

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4 thoughts on “Mrs Red Flag City

      • Loving hearing a mans view!

        With that, We’re all damaged. But I do have to say that I chatted with numerous people that had 3-10 pics posted and you know what? They were stolen from Facebook profiles. Turned out to be a big money scam so on and so forth so I wouldn’t rule someone out for only one or two blurred pics. Those are actually the ones I would contact. Maybe I’m different. I like a little mystery. Besides all you do is a google search on the pics and if you send more than 50-100 msgs give her your number. If you’re afraid of crazies, create a google acct and send her msgs that way. I personally can’t stand when someone asks to skype or IM on snap. But I do call them before we meet as a standard rule too. Any man I talk to has to be able to carry a conversation and make me laugh. or else why would I want to even go on a date? let alone sext him 😉 Just food for thought.

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