Guest Post: How to Create a Lasting Impression

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In a sea of dudes, how can you stand out from the other fish? Attractive women are used to getting approached and are tired of the same old tactics. From using the cocky approach to going for flattery, it’s all been done before. Think about it: are you guilty of using the same lame strategies and openers? Not to worry buddy. Here are some ways to switch up your game.

Nail your Look

If you think appearing pompous and successful is the key to luring women, you’re missing the single most important ingredient—your look. Many guys set the bar pretty low, mistaking a plaid shirt and a beard as an excuse for style. Sorry, but unless your Dan Bilzerian, you can’t get away with it.

To make a good first impression, wear a black V-neck. Why so specific? Well, it’s probably the most universally flattering shirt for guys. Other than that, make sure you’re freshly showered, well-groomed and smell awesome.

Be Interesting to Grab her Attention

Women are suckers for witty banter. It gives them a chance to feel like they’re clever and increases their curiosity about you. The interplay of sarcasm and flirtation brings you closer together, creating a fun experience that takes the pressure off.

You can develop this exciting interaction by asking her a probing question. Something simple like, “Do you play Pokemon Go?” This will entice her to answer and engage with you. If you can make her laugh, that’s a bonus! Laughter and deep conversation is a powerful recipe for an unforgettable moment.

The ability to capture her attention is especially vital when seducing women through dating apps. Although women on apps like Tinder and POF are usually easy prey, you’ll need to work harder for those dames on higher-quality apps like Match or Who Winked Me.

Be Social and Likeable

Like Van Wilder, you should always exude strong feel-good vibes, so that every lady wants a piece of you. Women can instantly sniff out the big boy on campus and it’ll boost your attractiveness level tenfold. The only question is how well do you impress those around you?

A great way to be impressive in a social setting is to show off your connections and friends—you’ll demonstrate likeability, making you more attractive to her. She’ll feed off your confidence like a piranha because most women are insecure and are hungry for approval. So, you be the guy to give her that satisfaction. Right this way, missy…

Be Authoritative

Women love manly men— it’s pretty much locked in their female DNA. The appearance of self-certainty and inner strength demonstrates power, which is like a drug for attraction.

Yet, this quality should not be confused with arrogance. We’re not talking about being smug, but rather secure and independent. Women are less likely to forget about the guy who shows true authority because it’s so desirable. On an instinctual level, they perceive these qualities to mean you’re a good protector and love maker—someone they’ll definitely want to give their number to.

These techniques far exceed anything you’ve ever been taught about game-play. They work on a genuine level, creating a lasting impression to close the deal, locked and sealed. Try incorporating these strategies for the next time you meet a woman you really want. Good luck.

Quit Treating Your Date Like She’s Already Your Girlfriend

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I recently read about a guy seeking “help” after his first date with a girl went completely sideways.  This moron, for lack of better term, took the girl to the mall and had 12 children each walk up to her and hand her a red rose – from him.

Yeah.

And he was wondering why she bolted to the hills and blocked his number.  And while this is clearly an extreme case of said epidemic, guys fall into this trap all too often.  Not just with actions either, it’s usually words that will cause the lady to run away – most times before even meeting.  Ever had a girl cancel your date 10 minutes before, because her brothers, best friends sisters rabbit got sick?

Then you have fallen into the trap – and its all you buddy.

To go on 1, 2 or 8 initial dates with someone new is really no different from when you met your best friend.  Did you tell them they were your best friend, buy them a gift and then blow up their phone all before they had a chance to get home right after you first met?  If you did then they aren’t your best friend – that person would have a restraining order on you.

Understand that women are emotional beings, while we idiots are visual.

Too deep?  Ok.

Women are crock pots, men are microwaves – make sense?  They need time for their feelings to develop.  This is where the old “wait 3 days until after the date to call her” came from in order to let her feelings develop.   The other benefit of this, is that all beings look back after time with less than perfect vision – tending to remember the good, and not the bad.  That’s where the “no contact rule” after a break up came from – and they both exist because they work. 

Thinking that you need to “do something” during these periods is to dig your own grave.  Why would a successful guy that has tons of options really care that much anyways?

Notice how the girls you don’t like chase you, but the ones you do like run away?  This is why – it’s because you are treating them differently.   The other example is men are like dogs and women are like cats – what does a cat do if you make sudden actions around them?  They run.  Now what does a cat do in which you ignore – it hops into your lap and starts to purr.

So meet to get to know her and have fun, ask questions, show interest, kiss her on the lips and then take a breather before running her off.